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By Dr. Max Langdon — Senior Digital Dating Analyst. Specializing in the psychological strategy of high-value relationships, market dynamics, and behavioral analysis of elite dating communities. Grammy judge Sam Pikar has announced on Instagram that he’s joined Luxy, the members-only app built for high-achieving singles who’d rather skip the swipe-fatigue of mainstream platforms. Pikar, a voting member of the Recording Academy and a working pop artist, posted a Reel confirming the move — a straightforward announcement rather than a deep interview, but enough to put his name and face on the platform. Taken on its own, that might read as a small detail. But it’s really a data point in a pattern that’s been building for a while: public figures, executives, and other high-profile singles are gravitating toward curated, privacy-first dating apps instead of the open, algorithm-driven platforms most people know. Here’s what Pikar’s appearance signals, and why so many people in his position are landing on the same platform. Key Takeaways Grammy voting member Sam Pikar announced on Instagram that he’s joined Luxy, an exclusive dating app for verified professionals and public figures. Pikar is the latest public figure to be publicly associated with Luxy, reflecting a broader interest in curated dating platforms among successful and high-profile individuals. Luxy’s community includes successful professionals as well as public figures, with personalities such as Rachel Lugo and Ashtyn Zerboni among those who have publicly shared their experiences on the platform. Independent research has highlighted ongoing privacy, authenticity, and safety challenges on many mainstream dating apps, prompting some users to seek more selective alternatives. Luxy’s approach is designed to support a more intentional and trusted dating experience, including rigorous profile review, optional income verification, and a strict no-sugar-dating policy. Why Sam Pikar and Other Celebrities Choose Luxy Pikar’s appearance on Luxy fits a broader pattern among high-profile singles. A few recurring reasons come up again and again for why people in his position end up on this kind of platform: Privacy first. Public figures can’t risk their dating life becoming a headline. Luxy limits visibility and gives members control over who can see and contact them. Verified members only. Every new profile goes through rigorous review before gaining full access — a meaningful filter against impersonation and fake accounts. Time efficiency. Celebrities and executives have less bandwidth for open-ended swiping. A smaller, pre-screened community means less time spent weeding out mismatches. Reputation protection. Because the platform screens for authenticity and enforces rules against transactional dating, members face less risk of being publicly associated with the wrong kind of story. Shared context. Matching within a pool of other high achievers means less explaining, less guessing, and fewer awkward mismatches in lifestyle or expectations. These aren’t hypothetical concerns. Independent research on the dating app industry backs up why privacy and vetting matter so much for anyone with a public profile. Mozilla Foundation’s 2024 Privacy Not Included review found that 22 of the 25 dating apps it evaluated did not meet the organization’s recommended privacy and security standards, making dating apps one of the weakest-performing categories in the report. For an average user, that’s an inconvenience. For someone whose private life is already a matter of public interest, it’s a genuine liability. That gap helps explain why platforms built around strict vetting and tighter access controls have become the default choice for people who can’t afford a data slip-up. Which Celebrities Have Joined Luxy? Pikar isn’t the first name in entertainment to be linked to Luxy, and he likely won’t be the last. Selling The OC star Ashtyn Zerboni has spoken publicly about meeting her now-husband, Jeff, on the app — a relationship that later became a talking point on the Netflix series itself. Around the same time, Real Housewives of Cheshire star Rachel Lugo shared her own experience meeting a new partner through the platform. What connects these stories isn’t just that they involve reality TV names — it’s that each one centers on the same underlying complaint about mainstream dating apps: too much noise, not enough signal. When a platform screens members before they can even start messaging, it changes the calculus for anyone with a public profile to protect. It’s a pattern worth watching, and Pikar’s appearance adds another data point to it. How Does Luxy Keep Its Community Selective? Luxy’s pitch to high-profile and high-achieving singles rests on a handful of concrete mechanisms rather than vague promises: 24-hour profile review. Every new applicant goes through a rigorous review process before becoming a full member, rather than receiving immediate access to the platform. No sugar dating policy. Luxy explicitly prohibits “sugar daddy/sugar baby” arrangements, positioning itself as a platform for serious relationships rather than transactional ones. Selective acceptance. Not every applicant gets in, which keeps the community smaller and, in theory, more consistent in intent and lifestyle. FAQ Q1: Is Sam Pikar on Luxy? Yes. Grammy judge and Recording Academy voting member Sam Pikar has joined Luxy. While he has not publicly shared why he chose the platform, his presence on Luxy has been publicly confirmed. Q2: What is Luxy? Luxy is a selective dating app designed for successful professionals, executives, entrepreneurs, and other high-achieving singles. The platform focuses on profile verification, member quality, and intentional dating rather than high-volume swiping. Q3: Who can join Luxy? Luxy is open to adults seeking a more selective dating experience. New applicants go through a review process before receiving full access, and members can choose to complete optional income verification to build additional trust. Q4: How is Luxy different from Tinder or Bumble? Unlike most mainstream dating apps, Luxy uses a strict review process, offers optional income verification, and enforces a strict no-sugar-dating policy. Its focus is on creating a more curated and trusted community for serious dating. Q5: Do celebrities use Luxy? Yes. Several public figures have publicly shared their connection with Luxy, including Grammy judge Sam Pikar, Selling the OC personality Ashtyn Zerboni, and The Real Housewives of Cheshire star Rachel Lugo. Q6: Is Luxy only for celebrities? No. Although Luxy has attracted public figures, its community is primarily made up of successful professionals, entrepreneurs, executives, and other ambitious singles looking for meaningful relationships. References Mozilla Foundation — “Data-Hungry Dating Apps Are Worse Than Ever for Your Privacy” (2024 Privacy Not Included review) Luxy Help Center Further Reading What Successful Women Really Want in Dating (Reddit Data) Best Dating Apps for Successful Men in 2026 Which dating apps are best for finding successful partners? Why Luxy’s verification and exclusivity set a higher standard Why Do Millionaires Value Honesty More Than Money in Relationships? Do Wealthy Singles Care About Family Values? Here’s the Truth

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  איך תוכל להאריך את משך הסקס להגיע לשיא מהר יותר מבת הזוג שלך הוא דבר די נפוץ, אז אל תרד על עצמך. למרבה המזל, רוב האנשים שגומרים במהירות יכולים ללמוד כיצד להחזיק מעמד זמן רב יותר. תרגילים ושינויים באורח החיים יכולים לעזור בשיפור השליטה, ויש הרבה טכניקות לעיכוב שיא שתוכל לנסות במהלך יחסי מין. […]

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There are two rules that anyone having anal sex has hopefully heard before: First, always use lube; second, don’t go straight from anal sex to vaginal sex. But if you’re someone with a vagina who is having anal sex, then there’s a good chance that sometimes you have anal sex and vaginal sex in one sexual encounter, so it’s important to understand exactly why this second rule exists and how to make it work for you.

If you need a brief health class recap, your anus is technically the end of your digestive tract, and it’s where your bowels exit your body. So, any bacteria that’s found in your stool or that’s been inside of your gastrointestinal tract — your esophagus, stomach, and intestines — can end up in your anus. While it’s normal and cool for this bacteria to be found in the anus, it can be a problem if it ends up elsewhere, like inside your vagina.

Can anal sex cause yeast infections and bacterial vaginosis?

If you had a penis, object, or finger inside of your anus, and then directly put that same thing inside of your vagina, that can greatly increase your risk of several different infections, says Donnica Moore, MD, a women’s health expert in Chester, NJ. “The types of infections it can cause include, but are not limited to, bacterial vaginosis, yeast infection, UTI, or complications of all of those things,” Dr. Moore says. “It’s along the same lines of why we teach people to wipe from front to back, not back to front, after you use the toilet.” But this isn’t meant to scare you into avoiding anal sex entirely; it’s just to motivate you to take the proper precautions if you’re going to do it.

How to reduce the risk of infection during anal sex

To guard against contracting some kind of infection, thoroughly wash the penis, object, or finger that was inside your anus with mild soap and water before it enters your vagina, explains Dr. Moore. Or, you can use baby wipes or moist towelettes to clean the penis or object, she says. If you’re using condoms, you still have to use these clean-up measures, and you also have to put on a fresh condom. (Often, condoms don’t cover an entire penis or penetrative object, so there’s still a chance that it could have bacteria lingering on it.)

While these measures might seem a little bit extra, or at the very least a mood-killer, there are a few ways that you can make the transition a little less awkward. You could always use something else for vaginal stimulation after anal sex, like a dildo, vibrator, or your hand, Dr. Moore says. Or, you could just have vaginal sex before anal, or opt for shower sex (so you don’t have to worry about going to the bathroom to wash off before having vaginal sex), she says.

Now, if it’s too late and you already had anal sex and then vaginal sex right afterwards, you should urinate immediately after, Dr. Moore says. Also keep an eye out for symptoms of an infection, including fever, chills, discharge, pain or itching, blood in your urine, or any rectal symptoms, and call your doctor if you notice them. “And frankly, if you have those symptoms anyway you should call your doctor,” she says.

All of this might sound like just another chore that you have to think about during anal sex, but it’s one surefire way to ensure you’re having safer sex. And hey, if this means you only end up having anal sex one day, that’s not the end of the world, either.

This article was originally published in October 2017 and has since been updated.

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