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Hi guys. In a bit of a dilemma.

There's this guy I've been going out on dates with and he's been nothing short of incredible. He plans dates really well and his personality matches a lot with mine. We're both pretty introverted but we do still like to socialize with others. He likes reading as do I, and though we do have some different interests and hobbies, I find we match together very well.

I also love the way he treats me. He treats me with upmost respect and honestly I haven't seen a single red flag.

The only thing is the physical attraction. I feel like I'm beating myself up because he seems like a good catch, a literal pearl. It's just the physical attraction isn't much there. I think I'm attracted to him like 20% out of 100% attraction. I'm very confused as to what to do.

As for me, I know I'm a good catch too. I've been working on myself for years and I've done a lot of looking inward and acknowledging my bad sides and qualities while also seeing the good in me. Physically, I do also think I'm very attractive (not to toot my own horn but I hold a lot of confidence).

Am I wrong for feeling like this may not be for me...? I've been having so much trouble with this because I don't want to lose out on something that might be amazing, but it's just hard to even see myself kissing him. We haven't been on many dates though so maybe that's the problem too.