Frequently asked questions

A dating site between private people, online since 2003, for women, men and couples looking for discreet dating: hookups, friends with benefits, fun sex, domination games and partner swapping. It is not a paid escort service.

Enter your email address or continue with Google, and you get a 6-digit code. No password. Then answer a few short questions - who you are and who you are looking for, date of birth, area, nickname and what you are into - and you can add a photo.

Sign in with the same email address that is on your card and you get a code. Your profile, photos and messages are waiting for you.

No. The site is for adults 18 and over only, and the date of birth is checked when you sign up.

Browse, search, read messages, post in "Right now" and send 25 likes a day. A subscription is needed to send messages.

Sending and replying to messages without limits, seeing who liked and viewed you, unlimited likes, and asking to see private photos.

With PayPal, a one-time payment for the period you choose, with no automatic renewal. PayPal and your statement show the name topishare, with no mention of SexPal or dating. Prices are on the pricing page.

See the refund policy in our terms of use, or write to support@sexpal.co.il.

Discover shows members who match what you are looking for, from your area first. You can also search by area, age and interests.

A short note - for example "free tonight, anyone for a drink?" - that disappears after 3, 6 or 12 hours and is seen by members in your area. No phone numbers or links: whoever is interested writes to you on the site.

When you both liked each other, it is a match, and you both see it under "Likes".

A public photo is shown to everyone after our team approves it. A private photo is shown only to people who asked and you allowed. Nude or sexual photos: private only.

On the member's profile, tap "Ask to see private photos". They get a message and can allow it.

Yes, in settings, under privacy. You see who can see them and can remove access.

You appear under a nickname you choose. Your email and phone are never shown, and the location and other hidden details your phone stores in photos are removed when you upload.

Every new or changed text is approved by our team before it appears.

In the conversation, in the three-dots menu, "Block". They cannot write to you any more. Unblock in settings.

In settings, under email notifications, you can turn off notices about new messages and new members. Notices never include the message text.

In settings, "Close account". Your profile leaves the site and Google and you can no longer sign in. Messages already sent stay with the people who got them.